just so we’re clear:
- getting called out for doing something shitty is not the same as “getting hate”
- if someone is telling you that you did something shitty, they are not criticizing you as a person
- messing up does not make you an irredeemably awful human being
- but how you respond to criticism can be a pretty good indicator of your awfulness
Internalize the bold.
im ugly on the inside too
no you’re not, calm your ass down. you have millions of colonies of bacteria breaking down waste n doin all sorts of things to keep you going. below that there’s pure energy keeping your atoms vibrating at the right frequency which in turn keeps your cells moving and happy. Your whole body is emitting Love except your thoughts. guess what’s the only thing you can change? stop romanticizing the ignorance of your biology. #teamscience
I sometimes wonder if she hears herself when she speaks….